Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Wrapping It Up!!

Well, I guess it's over. I must admit that when I first heard that we would be blogging this semester, I was a little worried. I had never blogged before and had no idea what I was doing. However, throughout the past ten weeks, I have figured out that blogging can be therapeutic. I have also learned to think critically, more with this assignment than any other assignment in my past. While I have never had anyone close to me live with a terminal illness or die of a terminal illness, I have learned so much more about it than I ever thought I could. At the beginning of this assignment, it was my goal to tell different aspects of my neighbor's story each week and then introduce everyone to him at the end. However, due to his terminal illness, he became very sick after the first week and is now struggling to stay alive. However, while writing this blog, I have tried very hard to think critically about the different aspects of terminal illness that I thought he may have faced, paying particualr attention to middle adulthood. So after thinking about terminal illness in middle adulthood, almost daily, for ten weeks, I have made some conclusions. First, terminal illness does not discriminate. There are people of every race, age, gender, culture, socioeconomic class and religon affected by terminal illness. Second, terminal illness affects everyone involved, not only the person with the illness, but also their family and friends. The list goes on and on but these are the two most important lessons I learned while writing this blog this semester. I want to thank everyone for thier comments and for going through this learning process with me. Take care and see you all next year!!!!

4 comments:

Short Stop said...

I have learned a lot viewing and commenting on your blog. I agree that this ten weeks of blogging has been therapuetic and is a great learning experience. I am deeply sadden about your neighbor, I felt sometimes as you wrote about him that I knew him and my heart went out to his family and friends. This was a great blog and your two points were right on point.

davey said...

I too was worried but it has been interesting and informative I must say. It's funny that you said blogging was therapeutic because before I start doing ALL of our other homework I always blog first because it is much more relaxing than a paper or a quiz etc...
So true that terminal illness does not discriminate; just look at all the children suffering. The entire family is certainly affected by the child's illness and of course if it were mom or dad it would affect the entire family as well. We have learned about how the elderly depends on family for assistance and with a terminal illness the young become old quickly and need family support and assistance.

Otha said...

I too have learned a lot from the blogging and it was my first time. Some of the things I didn't know and some of the things I leatned a little more about.Your right terminal illness do affect your family and friends in many ways.

. said...

I agree that terminal illness has an affect on families and this is much so how they cope with fining out that a loved one has been diagnosed. It seems that once an individual gets diagnosed with a terminal illness there isn't much time to cope because everything is happening so fast. Especially when someone is diagnosed all of a sudden, the family has to learn to accept and cope at the same time because in the beginning you deal with denial and the "why" questions. I'm sorry to hear of your neighbor and hope his family is learning to offer support during this tragic time for him.